Hold on to each other.

My husband and I have the sort of marriage that makes other people sick.  We are truly happy and so in love.  Every day we are thankful for each other.  And I mean every day.  Even I am surprised sometimes at how well our relationship works.  In all the years we have been together, we…

Are they natural?

My husband and I struggled with infertility for years.  With every failed attempt at getting pregnant our heartache grew.  Then finally it worked.  We were pregnant!  Not only that, we were having twins.  The joy and disbelief was almost more than we could handle.  Happiness could not begin to appropriately describe the way we felt.…

Don’t Ask

“So when are you two going to start having kids?” “You don’t have any kids?!” “Why don’t you have any kids?” For someone who is dealing with infertility, these seemingly harmless questions are daggers in an already broken heart.  They feel rude, insensitive, and like an invasion of privacy.  The emotional pain one experiences through…